why is it that, we realise what's wrong with ourselves, only after things happen?

lunched with valerie ytd.. it felt kind of weird.. as in, everyone left so quickly. didn't expect that at all... anw hope that everyone managed to recharge! cuz the week was like.. gpgpgp clclcl pipipi dodgeballdodgeballdodgeball 2am2am2am, 3am3am3am. and for jieming 6am6am6am.

had a cousin 16 and above 'outing' ytd.. 6 of us and my bro had dinner at ser gardens.. borschs(can't really rmb) steakhouse.. ambience was good..and no service charge! then we had dessert and a good chat at happy-daez!

and earlier this week tx told me about the accident that happened to a sec 3 guy from our school. though saddened by the news.. it reminded me that life is indeed fragile, and that life shouldnt just be about things like gpgpgp clclcl pipipi dodgeballdodgeballdodgeball 2am2am2am and 3am3am3am.. its about treasuring our loved ones, letting them know how much we love and care for them. we hear this everywhere.. and tell ourselves, 'yes', we must cherish the people ard us.. but how often do we really put our words into action?